I've been having the giant burning desire to want to be a part of the 🍍 lifestyle. It has been something that i have thought deeply about for a decent amount of years and have considered it. But, my biggest concern is that of my gf of over 5 years, is not a fan of the idea and wants nothing to do with the lifestyle. And I'm worried that she would want to end things if I tried to pursue any further. Now, the immediate knee jerk reaction is that " oh I wanna sex with other people, or that they think they are not good enough etc." is what I usually get when I sometime mention it. But, to be quite honest, I don't even really wanna do the soft/hard swaps or anything like that intense

Yes, sex is definitely a giant aspect of the 🍍life. But, i see sex as a giant reward for taking the time and putting in the work with attending social gatherings and being able to connect with one another while attending group meet and greets. I like the idea of meeting at bars and clubs, meeting up with people in the life and gaining friends in the process. And if we all are connecting and having a good time. Why should it stop at the bar/club. And it's not like I wanna have sex with a lot of people, like I'm some kinda animal. I would like to know on how to approach it and not seem like I'm just a giant horny gremlin that some women portray us to be