I'm an active 29 year old male in Crown Point Indiana. In lieu of boringly listing physical stats I'll say I'm fit, above average height and well groomed. We should at least be mutually attracted to one another so please be comfortable swapping SFW pictures during introductions, I am ready to reciprocate. I'm DDF, non-smoker, employed (low bar but trust me I feel it necessary to say). I'm nonjudgmental about drinking and casual marijuana use, can be around both, but I don't partake with either as often as I used to. Designated driver perk.

I'll cut to the chase for what I'm not looking for: a one night stand, single males, an online-only pen pal, someone more than 2 hours away from Northwest Indiana, anyone with bad hygiene.

DON'T: contact if you're faking pics or pic collecting. I readily verify for potential partners I talk to and weed out this behavior early.

contact if you have no intention of meeting in person.

send, "We should chat," "hi whats up," or similarly low effort intros. I want to gauge how compatible our fit is and that's hard to do if I'd get a more spirited conversation from a wrong number.

Politely don't waste either of our time. Even a post this exhaustive is partially intended to weed out people who say, "wow, too much to read." Unlikely we'd be compatible if that's your response so good luck finding what you're after.

I AM looking for someone social, conversational. Whether you're a couple looking for a 3rd or a single woman looking for fun, I'm seeking a friend(s) where casual sex is the bonus component. I have MMF threesome experience if that is important to a couple.

DO: Read my whole post. I'm big on communication and although this is a wordy post I've dealt with enough time wasters to feel every line is worth typing. I think anyone who has searched for a similar situation can respect the needle-in-a-haystack feeling. I'd rather ramble to find a good match than be brief and miss someone who will reciprocate this effort.

Let me know what your preferred method of communication is (username if applicable). Reddit DMs aren't ideal for me past opening hellos.

Put your personality into your reply. Are you goofy? Have deadpan humor? Intros are awkward, I know, expound on any of these in your reply: What's something you're obsessed with? Favorite sport? Band/artist you listen to the most? Where's your favorite local spot to eat? What nonsexual thing are you a slut for (ie, Italian Food)? What'd you do this month you're proud of? Biggest turn on? How do you relax when stressed? Something you think you spend too much time doing or not enough time doing?

Bonuses: You live in or near Crown Point

You have a sweet tooth

You work out (don't need to be a fitness maniac)

You don't mind being spoiled

You're able to host

You love music (especially live music)

You need someone to tag team trivia night or play games with

You're as content being a homebody watching movies as you are bar hopping

Physical attraction is subjective so age and body type isn't as vital as being a normal, social person who has an enthusiastic attitude. I also feel like the sexual component falls into place if everything else lines up. If we can coexist for a car ride I assume we'll have fun getting naked, that's the easy part. I'd love to learn about you, what your passions are, what you want out of life and show you those same features in myself... without looming commitments or making you meet my parents.

Look forward to meeting a good match. Thanks for reading.