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People who are reading with no earthly idea what this term refers to, "cuckolding" refers to a relationship dynamic in which one partner (typically the male, in heterosexual relationships) is aware of and consents to their partner engaging in sexual activities with other people. The partner who engages in extramarital sex is often referred to as the "hotwife" (in the case of women) or "bull" (in the case of men), while the consenting partner is called the "cuckold."

This relationship is a kink/ lifestyle like a lot of other kinks like BDSM, exhibitionism etc.

Remember people, Consent is Sexy.

Dynamics and Communication

In order to have a good healthy cuckolding experience all the parties involved need to trust each other and everyone needs to be truthful, establish clear boundaries and have open communication. Discuss with your partner about your limitations, how do you want to approach this, discuss your concerns meticulously.

Safety: Practice safe sex to prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and other health risks.

WHY / HOW CUCKOLDING ISN'T CHEATING

In short: Cheating is a violation of trust; cuckolding is an expansion and exploration of trust.

Cheating is so destructive because of the secrecy. Without being involved and aware of what’s going on, the husband is left feeling nothing but fear and potential loss. This is not the case with cuckolding. Husband and wife should share everything regarding this experience. When this is done within a loving, trusting marriage, the husband can focus on the erotic elements of such an adventure with his wife instead of being overwhelmed with anger, fear and doubt.

Wives have a hard time with the idea of sharing so much about their experiences with someone else. Their instinct is to protect their husband from such details, but for several reasons, these detailed exchanges are the key to happy and successful cuckolding.

There are a number of reasons why this kink is appealing to people :

• Voyeurism: The cuckold may derive pleasure from watching or knowing about their partner's sexual encounters.
• Humiliation: Some cuckolds may find arousal in feelings of submission, humiliation, or inadequacy.
• Compersion: This is the opposite of jealousy, where one partner feels joy and satisfaction from their partner's pleasure with someone else.

All of the above reasons can also be applied to Hotwives as well.

Keep in mind, this lifestyle is not rigid, it can take many forms and variations, it depends on each couple and their needs. It might include actual sexual encounters or remain purely in the realm of fantasy and role-play. Sometimes fantasies are better than reality.