So we, me 24f and him 29m, started dating around 7 months ago, we kinda work in the same space and met there it self, became friends first and some time after, we really liked each other's company and started dating, it happened idk just happened and it's going great. We both have our kinks and stuff and exploring them, and discuss and explore the ones we both find exciting.

Soooo now I have been bi curious for sometime. My first kiss was a girl and he's the first guy i have been with in anything everything. So just casually while talking about something we ended up discussing threesome, and I asked if he would like it with me and my bestie( she is single right now), he knows I'm bi curious and has asked me that if I ever wanted to try with another female, then I can, given he knows who and what happens and doesn't. But we never discussed it too much, since we don't get enough time for that either ways.

Soo yea, he initially just shrugged it off thinking I was just messing with him, but I told him that I can't and don't want to do it with someone I can't trust.

He after some time and lots of thought, said not a good idea, since it could pottsntionally change things even in the best case scenario. I told him, if it doesn't work out we talk about it again.

So then he suggested to, explore alone if I'm sure with her, and then let me know and then we can see how things go from there.

I asked my bestie(24 f) about it too, she initially said no, but then she wouldn't mind it, if I was completely sure about it.

They both get along well, they roast and taunt a lot but also care too. And I also think that she finds him attractive.

Sooo we went for brunch last Saturday, and then in my car made out, and later at her place played a bit, nothing too hardcore. Sent him a pic, of us naked lying. He ofourse knew when and where we were going to meet. And was both nervous and excited how it would go.

She is also excited about it and so am I. And also discussed the Pros and Cons. And decided that if it doesn't work out for some reason, we can go back to being completely platonic.

He said, to process everything for a week and then tell me. It's been a week almost and I'm sure. And asked her as well, she is sure too

So I want to ask, how should I tell him that we are both sure about it, but also would like to know possible issues, according to all of u.

Thks