I'd like to preface this by saying that I'm no sex God. But I've seen a lot of people, both guys and girls complaining that the guy doesn't last more then a few minutes or seconds lol. I am not ashamed to admit that I'm one of those guys. Sex gets us very excited and if there's passion, I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. But it's no fun for both the partners.

To the point, I think what works best and I'm genuinely surprised that many people aren't doing this (maybe you are) is that make the guy cum during early foreplay, with wild kissing or blowjob, hand handjob or wherever but no penetration. Then use rest of the foreplay to make him go down on you (it makes us hard too) or suck him again to make him hard. When he's ready to go again, boom! Enjoy your long lasting sex. You'll be satisfied (hopefully) and if the guy's anything like me, he'll be happy all week with his balls drained out. You're welcome. Thanks for "coming" to my Ted Talk. Cheers!