I love wearing fashionable clothing and feel like even incontinent people should be able to wear trendy clothes (maxi dresses, tighter fitting clothes etc without judgement for their disability), I always wear a long top for example a dress or baggy shirt if I’m wearing leggings but I don’t know whether to keep wearing what I’d love to wear, or only wear baggy clothes for discretion reasons, I’m quite into fashion so i find it sad to sacrifice my fashion taste for my incontinence but I also don’t want to be the victim of harassment in relation to people thinking my underwear is too obvious. So I guess my question is - did the rest of you significantly alter what you wear to be more discrete? I wear Tena pro skin flex plus, I’m thinking about trying magic pants again (if I tear the sides they fit but can leak if I’m not lined up properly (male genitals)