I (21F) have been crushing on my uncle since I was a little girl. He’s a very flirty guy and he looks young for his age (he must be now in his mid 40s). When I was younger I would get jealous of my aunt being with him and wanted him to notice me so bad, especially since he usually talks a lot about other women’s bodies shamelessly, even in front of my aunt. Somewhere along the line I started getting wet dreams and fantasizing on him cheating on my aunt with me.

As I grew older and started to get hotter I realized he started noticing me more and making flirty comments about me too, asking me if I had a Boyfriend and caught him a couple of times looking at my boobs (I wore very deep cleavage on purpose when I was around him). I’ve masturbated about him so many times, even at his house while he’s in the other room, and hooking up with him is a fantasy I would really like to happen for real, but I don’t know how to make the first move and all I get from him are mixed signals.

I know there must be something going on because since I started to look more like a woman, my mom never let me be around him alone. So, should I trust that instinct and just go for it?