So I recently posted about my difficulties with women here, how I’m an ex incels.co user and how I’d like to be better. Though it’s gotten to the point in order for me to have a conversation with women, I NEED to catfish. I’m not sure about the morality of doing this, I always get permission from the guy first (which would be one of my mates) but still I guess it’s wrong due to the dishonesty. I’m not doing it for sexual gain either, I literally only have a conversation there.

Due to this pandemic I can’t really try to approach or talk to women at events or anything anymore, so I don’t know if that would be better but I had been doing it for a few years and still every girl had refused to talk to me so I’m not sure if it would be any different.

Anyway, I’m using this account to talk to women and I think I’m asking if I should stop? I’ve made a few tinder accounts in the past and have never received a message before either. When I use this catfish account, the women there tell me that I’m interesting and that I have a “cool” personality so that’s really good news for me.

Is it possible for someone to be too unattractive to have a conversation with the opposite gender? And if it is true, should I either give up or get some sort or surgery to compensate?

Thank you.

EDIT: it’s not just tinder either, it’s all sorts of different apps