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He's so angry!
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My version:

18: Wanted to live young and free and slutty for a while and then have a family, but too shy to make it reality.

20: Met a man who lovebombed me and made me believe I didn't want to live without him. Regretfully gave up on the slutty youth I wanted and got into a serious relationship with him, as a virgin.

22: Married him. By then, I was made to believe that it was me and him forever and if I ever tried to leave, he was allowed to do whatever it took to stop me. He also has complete control over our economy and I have no autonomy whatsoever.

24: Our son is born. Half a year later, he's physically abusive for the first time.

25: I try to leave him, but he won't let me, so I accept that I'm stuck. I keep quiet about my reality at home, try to tell myself that all is good and make the best of it.

28: Ask for an open relationship, to be able to catch on the experiences I never had. He says no. I respect it but I mourn.

34: I fall in love with a friend, and my husband agrees to a poly relationship. (Not the right way to do it, I know.) The rules keep changing and my husband demands complete control but my friend sticks around.

35: New partner teaches me about consent and bodily autonomy, and makes me realise that it's possible to have a partner you're not afraid of. Husband finds other women he can use as supply and it takes some of that burden off my shoulders.

38: Still alive beyond 37!!! Husband and I divorce to separate economies because we both have serious relationships with others, but stay together. I can finally start building my own financial security, and start getting stronger and more independent.

39: I start calling my (ex) husband out when he treats me poorly, and he doesn't like that. His new partner is still completely sold on his love-bombing and more fun. He finally sets me free.

40: Living free and happy in an open relationship with my kind, sweet, beloved new partner, doing well with healing and finally getting to explore the slutty life I could never have in my youth.

Don't let men like these scare you into marrying young and inexperienced, girls!

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It saved me! But yeah, I didn't expect that outcome either.

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Which part? 😅

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Thank you!

Hug sounds good. :)

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Thank you! <3

Met a woman yesterday who had also married young, before she knew better, and wasn't quite rid of her abuser yet though she left him 13 years ago. It's so clear what the men who post this shit want.

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