So earlier tonight, I had a guy message me, not naming names. Everything was going good up until the point where he asked me a bunch of sex related questions, which isn't out of the blue considering this subreddit & many others I'm in. The problem was how he handled the situation.

I'd just like to start off by saying I'm only posting this to educate people, since some don't really seem to understand the concept of the CNC fetish.

Okay, so what exactly is it?

CNC, or consensual non consent, is a form of roleplay in which a dominant top & submissive bottom engage in, pardon my french, rape like scenarios, where the submissive has little to no say about when, where or how it happens. HOWEVER, the submissive & dominant typically have a SAFE WORD; this can be anything, something goofy & stupid, a color or a word. For example:

Dominant: engaging in behavior that the submissive doesn't like or isn't interested in at that moment.
Submissive: RED
Dominant: must stop the intimidating or unwanted behavior immediately.

In this way, both the dominant & the submissive can enjoy a pleasurable experience without miscommunication. That being said, both partners must always respect each others boundaries, should they not want to be touched, you don't touch them. Thank you for reading, hopefully this helps if anyone wasn't sure what it was.