I want a mutually nurturing and fulfilling long-term, monogamous, in-person relationship. While i don't mind starting online, the ultimate goal is to move this to something offline rather quick. This would also include moving to another messaging platform later on. I am not interested in something entirely online and want to get personal and more intimate as soon as possible.

We all carry our own burdens—whether it’s anxiety, past trauma, insecurities, or fears. The process of becoming who we are is chaotic and far from perfect. But that’s the essence of being human. It’s not about searching for someone who doesn’t have baggage, because that person doesn’t exist. True love, true friendship, and genuine connection aren’t built on ease. They’re about finding someone who’s willing to sort through the mess with you, side by side. It’s about waking up every day and choosing each other, despite the flaws, despite the imperfections.

I want to create a space where both of us can be vulnerable and unapologetic ally yourselves is what matters. We are all works in progress, and yes, sometimes we can be difficult to handle. But that’s part of the journey. We don’t bond through perfection—we bond through our shared struggles, our shared humanity, our feelings and emotions. The cracks in our armor don’t weaken us; they make us real. And in that realness, true connection is born.

I want is someone who understands and accepts me and doesn't pretend to be someone else. Just be yourself, uncensored and raw.

I want to be able to call my partner as my soulmate, my best friend and future wife. I do not want any drama, constant arguing or be the one carrying the conversations. The goal of mine is to have something long term and in person, living together, not online.

Honesty, loyalty and respect are what I value the most. A romantic relationship is based on mutual acceptance and appreciation in my view. Communication is very important so you should be able to write proper sentences, reply within a timely manner, show interest and be initiative while respecting each others needs and wishes.

A great character and a strong personality are what I want. I do understand that the visual appearance also plays a significant role but let me assure you, that the optical part is very low on my priority list — the sympathy and chemistry in between us needs to match. All i ask for is that you are healthy, do not smoke or drink alcohol. I am simply looking to create a deep connection between two people.

In general i am open to all kinds of regions and locations but please note that i am currently not able to afford any long distance travels or stays, you would need to travel - I can host however. Ideally you would be living somewhere in Europe, close to Germany or have the ability to travel.

Myself:

• Very tall (190cm/6"2), blue eyes, blonde hair, beard and wear glasses, very masculine with wide shoulders
• INFJ, very calm, well educated and stable income, mentally matured
• Don't smoke or drink any alcohol, STD Free and healthy, can provide tests and certificates to back this up
• Very much into Fitness, Bodybuilding, powerlifting and strongman, eating clean and active lifestyle
• Structured and well organized life
• Kind, patient, caring and yet dominant and guiding in a gentle way, low maintenance and peaceful
• Little gourmet and love cooking fresh
• Enjoy the cold weather, rain and love snow
• Instead of visiting a noisy and crowded place or going out i would much rather cook fresh for my partner, drink tea or hot chocolate together while watching a Series or a movie marathon
• I do play Video Games (PC) in my free time as well
• My love language is physical touch and i need a lot of that, kisses, hugs, sex, all of it and as much as possible
• Don't like conflicts, rather have calm discussions, open conversations and simply show empathy to understand but also respect each others opinion

When reaching out to me, please make sure to introduce yourself such as with your age, location, gender and tell your your kinks, your fantasies as well as your limits.

I do not consider a plain "Hi" or "Hello" as a introduction and don't expect me show interest right away.