I'm a white male here in the city. Own a house; it's an old house that needs some work, but it's a reliable sturdy thing, and a house nonetheless. Basically, it's a duplex, which means it's a double-unit. So we have kids, they grow up and we hand them a pair of keys to the backyard, and they just sort of get an instant house. In a lot of ways, I'm lucky. I have no rent or mortgage, no huge debts I can't handle and need to worry about, and have a house that on paper is sort of the best possible sort of place to have kids in. And I remember being way younger, way back in my teens, realizing one day, I definitely wanted kids.

Why hasn't it happened yet? Well, I guess in college, I just focused on doing well in classes. Got my degree, got dean's honor roll, didn't go to parties, didn't use sex or dating apps. Highschool? I actually dropped out of middle school - I got a GED that I taught myself how to get by buying various books, then went directly to college. So, needless to say, I view myself as quite a smart person, but I just haven't really had the normal sort of upbringing most people have where you tend to meet people, socialize, get a girlfriend.

And now, I'm 34. I'm the age where I get a few grey hairs in my beard. I'm the age where most people already have a few kids who are a few years old. The age where people ask you sometimes why you're single and don't have kids yet.

So! I want an LTR thing ideally. My ideal is to talk to someone who wants to spend a lot of quality one-on-one time at home together, watch movies, play games together, eat, maybe occasionally go out for a movie, maybe a little vacation once a year. But mostly just be at home, be together, and make babies and raise them. And I don't want to use traditional dating apps or routes, because often it's hard to just have it as a bit of an upfront disclaimer: "I want to date for the sake of having babies." That's usually not your opener when you first meet someone or post on Tinder. So, this route lets me sort of cut to the chase.

I'll say this as well. Wichita, KS is known for a handful of things, and two of them that are relevant for posting in places like this are, it's the headquarters of Boeing, meaning air travel to and from here is almost always dirt cheap - meeting anyone from anywhere is easy and cheap. Two, Wichita, KS is the cheapest median rent city in the entire United States - again, I don't rent, I own my house, but it's a significant metric and overall means Wichita is just one of the cheapest places to live.

I want you to relocate here, live with me, and fill my empty bedrooms with children. I don't care how old you are - you can be older than me, my age, or younger and just be some young college girl who wants an excuse to drop out and have kids - I just don't care about your background. I don't care about your race, if you're white like me, black, Hispanic, Indian, middle eastern, or whatever. What I care about is if you and I have similar interests and life goals, because being together forever to raise babies kind of is a big deal and we should probably be able to spend time together and like each other. That's it. You want babies and to be with someone forever, and to walk away from whatever life you have right now and to be with me instead? Great, then talk to me. Let's see if we can arrange it. I am open to this, and I want to do this soon in my life, before I'm too much older.

Last thing. Like I said, it's a cheap place. There are jobs out there where you can work literally one day a week or a couple hours a day. I may be in a pretty well-off situation compared to the average random person, just purely relatively-speaking, but that doesn't mean I am a man of infinite riches. I know that being a SAHM is like 95% of women's dream who post here. Look, this is the United States. We have one of the lowest minimum wages of first-world nations, we have some of the worst wealth disparities, we have virtually no guaranteed labor rights like paid family leave and so forth that are just taken for granted to exist in most other countries. No, this is America. In America, no one helps you and you do everything yourself, and if you can't do it yourself, it doesn't get done. What I'm saying is, you can't literally just not work ever. You can get a job working one day a week. You don't have to work much at all, and in fact it's probably better you don't so you can help our kids and house unless the potential job is insanely good. I'm just saying you can't literally make 0 dollars a month. That's all.

Alright, done. If you're interested, message me.