I'm white, 30, clean, and ready man looking to start a family with that special someone. Would love someone to be there for all of the ups and downs of life. Nothing wrong with relying on each other when things get tough. Which they will. Dont get me wrong having a wonderfully blissful life is nice, but even then you still find moments that can be hard to get past without someone to help. If you think that that'll never happen...dont fool yourself you just asked for it by jinxing yourself. Having a family comes with the territory of ups and downs. The little ones getting sick, needing surgery, etc. That is life regardless how perfect people want it. It is not shallow and it is not wrong to believe that things happen when you least expect it. At the moment I'm looking to have at least 2 kids (doesn't mean only). 1 boy and 1 girl. Not worried about having more kids though. Especially if we end up with 2 girls first. I'd still try for a boy. If you think it is wrong to want one of each then youre not the one I want. The average dream of a man, whether years ago or not, was to have one biy and one girl. That is what i prefer. Pregnant bellies can be sexy, and have the effect of wanting to try even more. Now don't even start here. I think the body is a beautiful thing. Especially those pregnant. There is usually that glow that comes with it that just warms my heart. I devote myself to my one and only. I spoil and treasure the ground they walk on, and they help me become better every day whether I need to or not. Talking things out and over is what we'll be doing right off the bat. So ground rules, expectations, limits, etc. Not gonna be one-sided family is a partnership, but can be done alone if need be. I'm not afraid to have my own opinions, and if you can't handle that....well my right to voice it regardless. You don't find me appealing then move on. If you some how come to realize I was a catch. It'll be too late for you. Oh and maybe check a post I put on my profile about karma of posts.