So I’m 5 months new to the lifestyle and my partner has around 3 years of experience. We haven’t done a full swap yet and it’s because of my old way of thinking. I wasn’t sure I would ever do a full swap until today. I used to think why would anyone want the woman they love to get fucked or suck some random dudes cock? Then it hit me…….I’m constantly always thinking about her, why not think about myself for once and think of all the fun and pleasure that I can have.

I’m 48 (In OK shape) and my girl is 46 (With some cushion, but still very sexy). We’ve had multiple conversations with young couples that are very good looking, but I could never pull the trigger. Due to my epiphany this morning, my new thought process is going to be about me and the needs and enjoyment that my cock can have!!!!!!! I’m putting the idea of her getting fucked off to the side and I’m gonna focus on me and all the beautiful, younger, tighter women that I can be fucking!!!

I believe that once I get passed the first full swap, me and my cock are going to have ourselves a good time!!!!

I’m interested in hearing everyone’s feedback. Do you think this way of enjoying a full swap is how you think/feel or am I setting myself up for a mind fuck?

PS - The thought of my love being pleasured by another man does make the blood rush to my little buddy a little.

**Side Note - I will always want to hang out with the couple first, to make sure the guy will be respectful to my girl and I will always be respectful to the other man’s girl as well.***

**We are a fun loving Schaumburg couple who likes to Shoot Pool, play darts, play Shuffle Board and do basically anything outside during these beautiful Chicago summers. In Box me with a pic if you’d like to meet and see where things go! Be our first couple for our first full swap and I’ll probably never forget you until the day I die……lol!**

**Also, my fantasy is to be with my girlfriend and another woman, but we all know how hard it is to make that happen. If there’s a single lady who’s interested in a fun couple to play with, you would make my fantasy a reality!!!! 😉😁**