We are a couple in our 40s in the Boise area looking to spice up our lives. We recently took a weekend getaway trip and it solidified what we think we want next in our journey but it also raised more questions. So here we are in search of guidance and hopefully finding a match.

Us: a very real and clearly somewhat naive average, professional, middle income couple. We are down to earth, fun loving, people that can find the good or something to smile about in almost every situation. We are both straight though the female is open to soft play with another female if the situation is right. We are often told we look younger than our age. we have the typical mom and dad bods. All in all we are better than average physically but surely could improve areas if we could focus and made the time for it. We are private and very sensitive to sharing any photos with clear faces until we are much more comfortable there is a connection with someone. Going to a public LS gathering is unfortunately not an option at this point.

What we would like: we’d love to find that elusive unicorn for regular fun. Since that appears to be unrealistic the wife has given the husband permission to find a FWB for regular safe play. We are also open to same room/parallel play with the right couple. The wife has no interest in playing with another male currently. Single males please do not waste your time or ours, it is not an option. We are a typical busy family so the frequency with these would vary based on connection and availability. We are in the Boise area but are certainly not opposed to travel and in some respect would rather this be a travel situation. It all depends on the connection again. We do not have age boundaries…physical and mental attraction along with connection are our biggest criteria.

What’s in it for you: at some point you were in the same exact situation as us. Stuck at the start with no clear answer as to what to do next. This could be a way you pay back the LS for what they have provided you. It might be that you are currently in a similar position and would be open to fumbling through it with a like minded, kind couple. Above all you will have laughs and a good time without a doubt.

If you find any of this post interesting please hit us up. We’d love to chat and share in order to see if there is a connection. If you are not interested in us but have experience in the LS and can provide wisdom and knowledge of where to find what we are looking for please hit us up. We are open to any guidance. It would be incredibly appreciated. We’d love to know where else to look for a match outside of these Reddit groups. I am confident there are matches out there just have no clue where to look. Finally, we understand that it would be much easier if we were more iron and public about ourselves. That is not an option for us at this time.

Thanks for reading the long post. Fingers crossed we don’t regret posting this!!!