I'm the one who walked away and I'm struggling between keeping my stand or going back and trying to fix this. He's an INTJ and he took a few steps back after 2 months of daily, steady communication and a good 1st date (we live in different cities). Like we would stay away whole nights talking. But then he wasn't communicating. Chats went down to one reply every 8-ish hours and after a week of asking what was going on I was getting one-a-day chat replies about the weather and he was just completely avoiding the elephant in the room. I have my issues and share of trauma, so I said enough and walked away. We had an ugly final chat and I deleted my account and all.

It's been a bit over a week since that happened and I can't stop thinking about him. Like, I'm losing sleep over this and I'm going nuts. Literally. I lost the chats, but I keep replaying that first date in my head, the topics we discussed during these past 2 months, and especially wondering, with the holidays and all, what is he doing? Does he miss me? He doesn't or he would've reached out by now. Maybe I should reach out? No, I should move on. You get the idea of the insanity I'm falling into.

So, how do y'all get over shit like this?