Is aging just paring down on what we consider important in order to manage disappointing outcomes in...

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Is aging just paring down on what we consider important in order to manage disappointing outcomes in a way that maintains *necessary* egotism?

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I'm 24 but I'm curious to hear responses from older INFJs. I think I understand that, early on, INFJs have high ideals and therefore expectations of themselves and others. I've seen that behavior is both a result of nature and nurture but INFJs can sometimes decide how to be from a larger range of observations.

My question is one of time and what you feel you have to do with it to be both realistic and idealistic, or a "mature" INFJ.

Take egotism here as in a high sense of self worth in which you think and talk about yourself pridefully. Not necessarily in a way that undermines others.

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