I want to write this post as a way to share my thoughts on how an brown person can have a white fwb/girlfriend/wife - often referred to as snowbunnies in some context on Reddit

I got a lot of messages and questions on this, and I thought making an open post would be good. Hope there’s admin/moderators allow it. It’s purely educational.

Although it’s not a step by step process and not a one formula for all, but I’ll explain a bit on how it may work

1. Be real and genuine If you are seeking a girl in the western part of the world, remember that you are the foreigner. 99% of the times the girls who would reciprocate back (sexually, romantically and intimately) are going to be somewhat progressive who aren’t afraid of another race. So you don’t need to act “macho” and do unnecessary things. Most likely you’ll not make it look natural and/or fail and it’ll look like a joker act

2. Don’t be afraid to learn As a brown person we have a tendency of knowing a lot of things or living in a male driven culture. Being receptive and being open to finer things will go a long way. Fine food, new culture, new music etc. Reciprocating by learning new things will give the girl a chance to admire you.

3. Have an open mind and communicate If you are just trying to “hook up” this is important. In the western culture you’ll have everyone with every possible sexuality and every possible lifestyle. Don’t be afraid. In brown culture, you are always told that being homosexual is horrible and bad. If you have any curiosity just be open about it. Women love men with a feminine side. Also women will love to experiment with you. So be open about it. It’s only scary once. If you experience anyone in a lifestyle, just learn about it and be curious about it. Obviously be safe and have your limits, but doing be scared because of how your mind has been programmed for over 20 years. It’s okay to feel attracted to and the same gender, opposite gender or anything sexually. Be open about it and communicate, you’ll be surprised on how many women appreciate it.

Note: You can always ask for a hookup directly and you’ll be surprised on how many women want it.

Most importantly: Don’t be an a$$ and manipulative. Good luck