Actually, there was a question mark on the rules. Our headline wasn't properly written. Now it is. Thanks for the question!

Depends on the event. The most common rules are "No Means No" and "You don't have to do anything you don't want to". People are really respectful of these. You'll never see a guy just start touching a girl without asking first. And if you did, everyone would have a problem with that guy.

There are both types of swingers. Friends with benefits and strangers with benefits. Some people prefer to have anonymous sex with someone they're never going to see again. Personally, although we don't have a problem doing that (and have many times), we like making friends out of the people we have sex with. The friends we've made in swinging are stronger than any we've ever made outside of it.

It can strain relationships. Swinging isn't for everyone. It does open up a dialog though. Every couple that is successful at swinging is also very, very good at communicating with each other, which is why swinging is usually filled with happily married, long time couples. If there is ever a problem with either person, they hash it out and solve the problem instead of letting it stew.

Sex, with multiple people.

Pikachu, of course.

That's one common way we have seen people get into it. Just make sure it's an actual couple and not a single male pretending to be a couple. That's pretty common unfortunately. Video is better than typing unless you are absolutely certain that there are two people on the other end.

There is the /r/swingersr4r subreddit too.

They all have their positives and we like them all.

The smaller house parties are fun because you get to really connect with good friends.

Large house parties (like we host at our house) are good for kind of adding to your play roster. Basically finding people you'd want on your small party list.

Big events are just plain fun. They are usually at a destination so you get to meet others you wouldn't normally. You also get to hang around with like-minded people for an extended period of time.

Find a partner as long as your girlfriend is ok with it. Don't do anything behind her back. That's not swinging. That's cheating.

I have no idea. Why don't you ask her.

I wouldn't say we needed a spark. Sex with each other has always been amazing. It does however add something that we could never give each other, variety. For example, Bianca is bleached blonde with big boobs. Tomorrow, if I want to have sex with a flat chested redhead or an African American woman or an Asian woman...or two, I can.

All of our sexual fantasies can come true, and they do.

Sure! For example:

Small house parties: Between two and five couples approximately. They are usually good friends, most of whom have played with each other previously. They start with chatting and usually end in an orgy with everyone involved.

Larger house parties: Up to 200 people (or however many fit into a house). They are fun ways to meet people and if you hit it off with another couple, take them into a designated playroom. Usually converted bedrooms or family rooms with lots of mattresses, etc.

Big commercial events: Hotel takeovers, cruise takeovers, private resorts, etc. These can be huge. The last cruise we went on had 4000 swingers on it. From beginners to seasoned vets. There are designated playrooms during certain times of the day but if you're really feeling frisky, just take someone to your room.

We had been talking about bringing a girl into our bed for a while (a really common starting conversation between spouses). When we were on vacation at a topless resort in Cancun, there were a lot of swingers there. One really hot couple started chatting it up with us and told us that they liked to swap spouses. Both of our eyes widened. Bianca I chatted about our rules and then invited them back to our room. The rest is history.