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Weāre here to discuss one of the most controversial topics in porn: gangbangs. Ask your questions to the queen of gangbangs and sex parties, KAZUMI.
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Yeah, I used to go to a lot of lifestyle parties before porn. Iād frequent gangbang parties Iād find on fetlife or personal ones my friends would throw.
But honestly, if you know a girl whoās into it and enough guys, it kind of happens naturally!
So this dynamic is more like an orgy vs a gangbang. A gangbang usually has one center (me!!!) and everyone is giving me the sauce. An orgy has a more even ratio of usually gender/sexual orientation and more couple swaps. When someone has a preference, we just respect it and go with the flow! The only rule here is respecting each others boundaries and having fun :3
That's a funny porn idea! Haha there usually isn't really a big convo on order, it's just whoever's ready!
Yeah, I actually donāt know why it wouldnāt be? If you get a guy and give him 6 hot girls to have sex with him and make him the center of attention, are we assuming heās not having a good time?
Before a scene, we always discuss our boundaries. For example, I donāt ever do creampies, but Iām ok with facials. So weāll usually discuss where we want it to land, and freestyle how to get there. Sometimes itās fuck to cum, or sometimes weāll have a hard cut so everyone can āget thereā and then turn the camera back on to capture them unleashing their loads around usually the same time. In terms of order, thatās usually just whoever gets there first! š
Crafty: usually small snacks that donāt make your breath stink, usually on the sweeter side and not savory. Although one time I went to a sex party that had jambalaya in a crock pot, and that was a little awkward. Once everyone is naked and feeling comfortable with one another, a lot of people are just hanging out, catching up, and otherwise just partying normally! When I used to go to GB parties, it would be a lot of familiar faces so it always felt like a really funny reunion sesh. When people are nervous, itās usually because they feel like others may shame them or find what theyāre doing to be inappropriate. But if weāre all doing it, thereās no need to feel embarrassed.
There might be some stank when it's just a bunch of friends having sex in the comfort of their own home, but on set I've personally never smelled anything.
As mainstream porn stars, we are required to test every 14 days. I get tested about every 7-10 days. In some circles, itās not even that kosher to fuck outside of your talent pool, because we donāt want to risk bringing anything into our workplace and potentially having to miss work or endanger our coworkers. Itās actually helped me assess my personal sexual partners a lot better, because I require them all to get tested frequently as well.
In terms of how often either of those happen, Iād say a lot less than youād think because we are in such a careful environment. If it were to happen, we just communicate like adults and handle it ASAP. Doing porn has actually done WORLDS for me in terms of being much more mindful of my sexual health!
Haha, itās kind of funny that you guys think that getting gangbanged is like the equivalent of running a marathon or something š¤£ if Iām getting fucked for an hour, nothing different really happens to my body biologically whether I fucked one guy or 17. I will say after a gangbang I always destroy my body AGAIN with a giant feast now that Iām done being naked in front of a party of people. My post gangbang meal is a bucket of Korean fried chicken!
Weeeee, I'm a sloppy toppy queen! Here's some options:
Hydrate hydrate hydrate. Water, clear pedialyte, white gatorade. You want your spit to be viscous, clear, and taste/smell good. No one wants brown spit or a blue tongue (from drinking like a colored drink)!
Sometimes we have a close by lube shooter that'll add lube as necessary or have an unmarked bottle of it hidden between the sheets.
I like Flint's Mints, the cinnamon flavored ones. Those make me salivate extra hard.
Gangbangs are definitely one of those things Iāve done a lot more of in private vs on camera. Iād say off camera sex is always the most comfortable because I donāt have to have any camera awareness and Iām just enjoying myself. And if a guy is bored, thereās no pressure for him to hover around or stay engaged, he can literally just roll over and play Temple Run until itās his turn (true story LOL). When the cameras are rolling, I feel like itās super fun in a way Iād compare to sports. Weāre all team players and here to have fun, but the prerogative is to create a great show! Thereās a level of camera awareness like opening up to the camera, making sure weāre all on the same rhythm, etc thatās beautiful to see. Both are fun!
Personally for me, every time I did a gang bang on set it was something I specifically requested and was ready to do. In this dynamic I wouldn't really compare it to an employee/employer scenario, but more so a back and forth conversation between coworkers. It's in everyone's best interest that I am happy and having a good time, so the more I'm excited and personally invested in this project, the better! But I do like the idea of a boss giving me six hot guys to fuck me at the same time. I would never be late for work!!
Proper Gangbang etiquette:
- Hygiene! Make sure you shower before and arenāt stinky. If anything smells in a sex party (which isnāt often), itās usually feet and not genitals.
- Consent first! For ANYTHING! Even if you just want to ask if you can jerk off and watch. Even if youāre already fucking. Even if you saw someone else choke her, ask her if you can and donāt just assume. It sounds kinda funny, but I learned a LOT about communicating my boundaries sexually because it was instilled in me when I first started going to these sex parties (around when I was 19). A lot of the normal feelings people have when embarking on their sexual journey like being disrespected for being slutty didnāt happen to me because I was surrounded by people who always prioritized my comfortability.
- Donāt hog the holes!!! Youāre not there to finish. Youāre just there to have fun for a few min and then pass it over. Everyone else is waiting and itās super awkward!
As Annabel Chong (my favorite gangbang girl, who fucked like 300 guys at once and is also Asian) said, āwhatās the difference between fucking one guy for one hour or 10 guys for one hour?ā Itās not like Iām proverbially more āran throughā than the other. Sex is sex.
It doesnāt smell like anything! Iād imagine when you have sex with one person, you make sure you take the proper hygienic precautions. So now imagine that times likeā¦seven? š¤£
Besides the actual acting itself, I donāt believe thereās much else acting involved. If most of the porn youāre watching involves pain, Iād implore you to watch different types of porn (if thatās not what youāre into)!
One of my fave things about attending the award shows for porn is seeing such a multitude of different types of porn. We have beautiful, cinematic ones driven by plot like Erika Lust, we have oily, intense gonzo like Evil Angel, we have features, and series, and comedies, and rom-coms, and horror movies, the whole enchilada! And with the onset of stuff like onlyfans, you can now find porn from your favorite independent creators and know your money goes directly to supporting them and that the content they create is exactly their comfort zone.
On a mainstream set, we always go over boundaries prior to shooting and often have a boundary checklist. When I do my onlyfans content, I do the same. This has actually helped me in my personal sex life, because Iāve gotten a lot better at communicating directly about what Iām into and not into!
Haha, that is so funny! I remember in elementary school, I came out of my room once in a pleated skirt and giant boots and my dad scoffed and was like, āBoys donāt like when you dress like that, by the way! Theyāre actually prefer you more conservative!ā And I remember being likeā¦ummm? Good? š¤£ I just wanted to dress like that, I wasnāt thinking about boys! All my life Iāve always been innately drawn to sex workers, so I guess Iām into sex worker fashion? I love the way strippers and hookers dress. I like the gaudiness, I like looking made up and unnatural, primed for fucking. I once stayed at a nudist resort, and at the restaurants you could dress however you wanted and I remember every night Iād dress up in something slutty like a Japanese schoolgirl costume, a nurse outfit, a collar/leash, all for the fuck of it. I just like looking slutty!
Lemme tell you this. Life is one big gangbang. You're usually not first or last, you just be happy when it's your turn. Thinking someone is more "used" the more times they're touched says a lot more about you than it does them.
If a guy is focused on pleasuring the girl, he usually doesnāt have a hard time getting erect. If his focus is on maintaining his āmasculinityā or comparing himself or thinking this is homo-erotic, then he may have an issue.
When Iāve had gangbangs/trains in my personal life, a lot of social constructs like that fly out the window in the name of pleasure. At the end of the day, what matters is if everyone is practicing safe, consensual, and ethical sex that makes them feel comfortable and respected!
I think just like regular sex, thereās no rules to this game. If I want some extra time with somebody then Iāll do it! But I do wanna make sure everyone has a turn.
Fluffers are a myth. They don't exist. If a guy needs to get "fluffed", that's on the girl's discretion if she wants to help out, but it's not expected.
0%. Before the scene starts we are usually asked if we are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. You're supposed to come to set completely sober as to not blur the lines of consent. When I'd throw sex parties, the same rules would apply. If there was substance consumption it would be off camera between very close friends!
I've found mine to be pretty heterosexual, but there have been moments (in this film even!) where the dicks touch, either in my mouth or in my pussy. But in terms of like actually interacting with each other sexually like kissing or oral or penetration, I haven't been lucky enough to see it in person yet! Hopefully one day :p I will say a good gangbang comes with a good rhythm between all the other guys generally liking each other's vibe and respecting each other's space.
Yeah, I actually ended up hanging up with 3 of them off set! I've had a lot of romantic endeavors come out of orgies. One time, I left a gangbang with all 8 of them and they all went and got dinner with, The Last Supper-style. We got shish kebabs!
One time, my house got broken into and my gangbang crew all came in to help fix it. They'd mount my TV, drive me around, help around the house. I've had a lot of friendships and cute one shots come out of these.
My long term goal is to continually choose joy. Everyday it feels like such a blessing that my life is built the way it is. I feel so happy to have worked to a position in my life where I feel like for the most part, I do exactly what I wanna do, every given day. Doing porn has opened more doors for me than not and allowed me to wear many different hats. I really like the entertainment industry and strive towards pioneering a path where more outward sex workers like me are seen "winning" and achieving whatever they want to do! In 20 years I hope to have inspired many more people like me to choose joy and whatever makes them happy and realize that there's no right or wrong way to live!
I feel like itās only enhanced it! I got into porn as an extension of my sexual exploration, so itās only added more tools to my tool belt :)
Iāve done a multitude of āreverseā gangbangs where the guy is the center of attention and thereās a handful of girls. Surprise, nobody has a question of ethics or enjoyment when the gender roles are switched. I personally like them if a guy can handle juggling it and the girls are into doing orgies on the side while we wait our turn!
Oh, my safe word is just āstopā. My nonverbal stop is just a hands up.
Iāve never had to use it! My boundaries have always been respected so far :)
Yes, Iāve done a lot of gangbangs/orgies off camera! I donāt have sex with anyone unless I see a test younger than 14 days. I only work with people I want to fuck!
I think it's a matter of preference and technique. Obviously different dick sizes, shapes, cut/uncut, are going to physically feel different. But I've had a good time with dicks of all sizes based off of technique like differing rhythm, positions, depth, foreplay, etc.
I went to my first ever orgy when I was 19, with 2 friends that really respected me and my boundaries. We had such a good time, we started frequenting sex clubs on a daily basis--not even just to fuck, but just to be in the ambiance of a free environment. Eventually, I started throwing my own sex parties. When my ex and I broke up, I made it a point to try to explore every kink event I could find to see what I actually liked without the influence of a man. I went to pet play events, BDSM dungeons, ABDL parties, and man, gang bang parties were my favorite (for obvious reasons!)
I like everyone to have access to everything :)
I like hot pot/shabu shabu! It's my fave meal ever!
I've never personally seen that on set, but in my private life I've seen experiences where another guy may get jealous or insecure. They're usually just take a break or leave the environment! On set, it's important to make sure everyone feels sexy and respected.
I've never heard of that, I feel like that may deplete their libido. Controlling ejaculation is a learned skillset, not sure if there's any supplements that help. I do know there's some things guys do to make sure their loads are bigger, like taking zinc and eating spinach!
Everyone is paid their rate, whatever that is!
I havenāt done anal yet but I do perform double vag in this scene! š„¹
Hmm, it happens, but there's a lot of preventative measures a guy can do (like viagra, trimex, etc) to ensure it doesn't go down. If they do go soft, the camera focuses on something while they figure it out
Haha no, I'm actually pretty social and extroverted and don't have a big issue connecting with people :3
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I donāt do much preparation for them beyond what Iād do for a normal encounter! My general pre-sex move is boric acid the night before, douche with distilled water, and then Iām ready to go! Generally I keep my diet in check and work out because I just like to feel sexy naked. Mentally, Iām just hyped. It feels like Iām gonna run the sexiest sweatiest marathon in the world! I donāt really think thereās anything difficult here for meā¦in my personal life, all my gangbangs have always been kind of adorable with groups of guys that just thought it would be fun. So Iāve always felt respected and no real shame doing things like this.
One time, I was at a gangbang party when this one stinky guy was about to enter this girl, and one of the guys stopped him and was like, ādude, you stink.ā They had a slight back and forth, and the guy was like, āthese beautiful WOMEN deal with ENOUGH!ā And Trojan kicked him (naked) down the stairs!! You have to consider that a gangbang in the real world is largely a womanās fantasy, so these men come in the mindset that we are here to cater to HER. Any entitlement, disrespect, or boundary crossing isnāt tolerated at ALL! I loved these GB parties because the guys would always be so sweet, and always ask for consent to even touch my elbow back then. Iām still friends with a lot of them!