I'm a 40 year old Dom from the UK. I've posted on here recently and haven't had much luck finding what I'm looking for so thought I'd give it another go and throw another line out there and see who bites. I don't mind any time differences so don't let that stop you from messaging.

First off I'm not looking to be a soft Dom. I'm looking for something deep and meaningful for both of us. I'm not married or in a relationship. I want to find someone who can see me as their obsession. Who can fulfil my needs and is open to new experiences, control and experimentation.

I want someone who is open to being open. Who can discuss what this means to them, what they want to feel, what they want to experience. Who can share their kinks and hear mine and not be embarrassed or scared. I want someone who sees me as someone to talk to, to make them feel, to take away their loneliness, to make them feel fulfilled. I don't want someone doing this just for fun or staving off their boredom.

I indulge in orgasm control, hypnosis, choking, cnc, manipulation, gaslighting and control.

I always set rules and explore consent in the beginning. I don't push ahead and try things unless I know you're willing. Once you are, I take advantage of whats mine. I take pleasure in it and I take pleasure in seeing you enjoy the ectasy of it. I take care of my sub after, I make sure she feels safe and secure. I make sure she knows I'm available if she needs me.

I give a lot and I demand a lot. I don't ask for everything and certainly not all at once. I do ask that you give me importance, you make space because you want to integrate me into your life, you want to make our dynamic part of your being.

If any of this appeals to you, send a chat and let's start chatting. I will want to move onto audio eventually and talk on a regular basis. If that doesn't work for you then we won't either.