Introduction:

Life can be so complicated, it can be so hard. So much pressure to preform and to have dignity, to maintain appearances and subdue your desires. Sometimes, it is easier to allow yourself to give in, to just find someone who’s boot you can crawl under. To let your mind empty and your body just obey. So that they can take on that burden, and you can just be free to submit. It makes it so much easier, to put that pressure from reality down for a moment.
For four years now I have been toying with minds in online spaces, exploring my skills and growing them. I take it as a point of pride that I learn everything I can about the psychology of my submissives, what they crave and why. My sexuality is almost entirely mentally focused, I seek to learn what it is that makes an individual tick, and to use that to achieve my goals. Goals which change from person to person depending on what I may want from them. Ultimately, what I crave is two things, Control, and humiliation. So long as I am in control, and am working to belittle you, I can work within whatever kinks lie within the deepest darkest parts of your heart. To elaborate a bit further on what I enjoy, I have created a short kink list for you to peruse;

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• Control:
  • Hypnosis: I am the most experienced with hypnosis, I've done plenty of text trances and voice trances. I've even recorded files for personal use by my subs in the past. I find that hypnosis is always better when it's personalized, so I tend to be very eager to get to know how your mind works.
  • Manipulation/Verbal teasing: Building off the last point, I enjoy subs who are easily flustered, confused and controlled. Whether we are talking in kink, or outside of it, I will absolutely be looking for any excuse to get you blushing. In a more kinky sense, I can use my understanding of how you work to twist you to my needs and desires.
  • Blackmail: This one is new, and I admit I am not as experienced as I would like to be with it. But the idea of it has always intrigued me and I would love to have a sub I could explore this with.
    TPE: There's a part of me that is sadistic, that wants to see you squirm and whine. But there is also a part of me that wants to take care of you, to hold you and tell you everything is going to be ok. TPE is interesting to me because it allows me to do both at the same time, I can control your orgasms to make you easier to control, but I can also make sure you're drinking enough water and exercising regularly.
  • Tasks/rules: As part of the intersections where control meets humiliation, giving humiliating tasks or dehumanizing rules are among my favorite pastimes. Especially as it allows me to go smoothly from tasks that are designed to humiliate you, directly into punishments for not sufficiently humiliating yourself, or for failing to meet an impossible goal. There is an element of manipulation involved in setting tasks that trap you into failing, so that I can follow up with a similar punishment that only serves to worsen the humility.
• Humiliation:
  • Triggerplay: One of my favorite past times with Hypnosis is to install little harmless triggers I can use to casually humiliate you. Some examples I've done in the past; A trigger that makes you begin masturbating and forget that you were triggered, one that makes you strip commando and forget where you put your underwear, one that brings you to the edge immediately. I try to be creative, but know that I'll be having fun with you.
  • Bodywriting/Exhibitionism: This one is certainly one I am going to be careful around. I love the idea of writing degrading (and occasionally reassuring) messages on you, on your arms, legs, chest, above your genitals. The feeling of being branded by them deeply accentuates the humiliating aspect of it. Especially when you have to go out the next day.
  • Worship: Body worship, cock worship, feet worship. I absolutely love being praised, it's among my favorite things personally. And so this method of degradation is an excellent way of mixing a supportive humiliation environment with one that I can deeply enjoy. It plays well into dehumanization as well, objectifying you down into barely a person while elevating myself in your eyes.
  • Watersports/toiletplay: This one is totally optional, but it is one of the peak elements of humiliation in my experience. Very little is as degrading as being lowered to playing with a toilet. Of course, if you are not interested we will partake in other play, but I add it here as I know many are intrigued by how lowly this can make them feel.

Expectations:
In this posting specifically, I am looking for play partners willing to join me in some of the more kinky elements of control. I want someone I can corrupt and manipulate, while ensuring they are kept safe of course. Being a dominant is a serious responsibility, if someone trusts me to give control over themselves, then I have a duty to them to protect them and care for their well-being for as long as we play. Safewords are therefore non-negotiable. However I want to push your boundaries to their limits and enjoy the feelings that kind of extreme play incurs. Whether you seek a friendship outside of kink as well is up to you, I am open to new friends, but for this posting I am looking for a toy. Finally, I have the post marked as M4Femme because I am attracted to anyone who is femme-presenting. Having shaved body hair is mandatory, as it is a unique preference of mine.

I have recorded a short clip with some brief and minor hypnotic elements to give you a taste of what you can expect if you reach out to me. I hope you enjoy~

https://voca.ro/1aYfT4eTK01x