So my husband and I, have been together for almost 2 years. And we just had our first daughter she is almost 3 months….

To make it short,

We haven’t *** the last months of my pregnancy because he was afraid of hurting the baby wich I found really hard because I felt unattractive and all the questioning came to my brain. But I accepted it.

After all, it been 3 months I’ve gave birth and we haven’t *** yet. And he don’t make the moves because he says that I’m not listening and being submissive (not listening to him on certain things) like I don’t want to BF exclusively, he doesn’t want me to go to the gym because there is man’s.. he doesn’t want me to drink a glass of whine at my moms…. Because I’m a mom and I’m breastfeeding it I pump and dump and waited 8 hours because I had some milk stacked up.

So he went to the strip club after he got mad, and it made me feel like complete SHIT. The fact that we haven’t **, the fact that he’s touching himself off for 6 months, the fact that he goes there. Anyways I’m just so overwhelmed also with a new baby, and I don’t know what should I feel or think. I need your advices ….