So today me and my girls went to grab coffee and catch up. I don’t know what to feel and I need to process something in my head for something that got brought up in this coffee session .. my friends are laughing at me because I married somebody thats not making alot of money. They asked me whats the most expensive gift I received from my husband.. I said all the abstract things i could think of they kept laughing at me because the status he gave me is lesser compared to my expenses on him. . . Hes also 5 years younger than me .. Am I wrong to marry him im 31. I feel like they look down on me for paying for him most of the time.

On the other note. He is not the smartest. But he have a good heart, but sometimes I cant help to think myself think that he is a weakling because of the decisions he makes. I feel drag down sometimes of what he does and how stingy he is. Also I think that he is gullible think that all the people surrounding him are kind. And I think he is mostly taken advantaged by the people around him because of his generosity, so does that make him a weakling? Should I tell him what’s up and lead him since I’m older, or let him lead since hes the man in the relationship?

Meanwhile, I am a good earner. I can provide for myself and him when he cant. I am brave enough to work anywhere and im not afraid of indifferences, I know my capabilities and I know I can make it anywhere.