Note: Any female interested must be willing to be friends first. Video chat and normal calls will happen within the first week. It you are too secretive we are not the couple for you.

We have been married for 15 years. He is vanilla but learning the ropes of BDSM. He has also just turned 40 with a successful career in what he loves. I am 39 with 20 years of experience as a dominant. I have owned 3 live in submissives from 2000-2005 (only giving them to another owner they agreed on because they did not wish to move to Europe.) successfully built and sold three companies and enjoy a life of travel. We wish to find a female submissive to enjoy our successes as well as be trained to serve well.

Let’s see, what will you get out of being our live in? A stable living environment as we are not looking for anything short term. We both have high sex drive so one way or the other your sexual needs should be met. You will be fed and clothing well and have the chance to travel the world with us. Teaching you new things is something I enjoy doing as well.

I have many things I want of her but most can be trained with the right person. These are things I can not train but hope she has:

1- Personality. I don’t believe a slave/submissive should be a drone. I can purchase one if that’s what I wanted. She has to have a mind and dreams of her own. A brain I can enjoy.

2- Curves. This is my preference.

3- Independent. Once trained I do not want a slave/submissive that everything must be repeated and end up with 70 questions before one task is finished. I give instructions and I expect a slave/submissive to do her best.

4- Willingness to travel. I used to travel a lot before the pandemic and once things get closer to normal I will be traveling the world again. Having a slave/submissive that shares this passion is a must.

5- Eagerness to learn and improve. I need to rely on a slave/submissive to learn things and be willing to improve upon them as time moves on.

6- Communication. This has to be there as I do want someone who wants to build something slowly and long term. If you are just looking to quickly move in then please pass over this post.

Possible Kinks she should be into: Humiliation Degradation Hucow Pet play Orgasm control Polygamy Edging Total Power Exchange

I am not look for someone who wants to move in tomorrow but willing to build something slowly. Someone who wants to build a future. And someone who would enjoy a sister slave.

Other than location as you must have a European passport, an age of at least 21 and CIS female, that’s it. While I do honest support the trans community I am not sexually attracted to you, please respect this. Introduce yourself if you are truly interested. If you have read this far then please send a message or chat with “passport in hand” so I know you are not a bot. I will reply to all that take the time to message. Everything I do is about safe sane and consentual. There are too many people who don't seem to undertstand this part of BDSM.

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