Hello. Just for the header, I'm looking for a Dom/sub relationship where we put mutual effort in it.

IMPORTANT NOTICE! - I'm not looking for any kind of paid services, Doms who require tribute, fee or any kind of payment. As I'm looking for genuine relationship.

Be aware! I'm pre-everything trans, so I still live my normal male life as for now.

I'm looking for both male and female Doms alike. I need to admit, I'm pretty much a bi curious person, I find myself as a trans, I did wanted to transition but haven't pulled the plug and haven't did that yet. I do look for a person(s) who'll initiate the transition process and will control basically every single aspect of it, fully affecting it the way they really want.

P.S.: I do see male Doms as my potential owners, as they do possess those true, inner Dominant treats. Just regardless to me being bi-curious. Ideally I do seek for a Domme (Female or MtF).

I do souly believe in importance of the trust and communication in a relationship, be it D/s or a vanilla relationship. So I do expect you to share this essentials, as if we'll loose connection, or communication, that will lead to ruining the relationship we'll build by that point. So as trust, don't expect it to be given only because you're Dom. I have been scammed, experienced all the spectre of bad treats of online type of seek.

Online:

If you do want to build a relationship with me purely online. Be aware that you check/inform yourself when following points: - online relationship is pretty tricky when it comes to real feelings, you need to understand that you'll be able to have your own life, real relationships etc. Otherwise it won't be fulfilling for you and you'll lose interest and ghost. - we'll need to be pretty clear and transparent about our schedules, without leaving the conversation spontaneously, as it leads to confused feelings and uncertainty of if you want it or not. - IMPORTANT: I'm really into true and genuine connection between us, so you'll need to be okay with voice and video calls once we establish the initial trust. I'm into hearing my partners voice, be it male, female, trans (you'll feel yourself comfortable, I'll be understanding about your potential voice disphoria).

IRL:

If you are looking for real life scenarios, you need to be aware that I'm open with a relationship/dynamic with relocation as a live in slave aswell as a normal D/s relationship

You need to understand that we'll need to meet up for few times before engaging into something serious.

Experience:

Sadly lately I had a lot of people who faked genuinity. Therefore trusting peoples expectations, plans, words, sayings is extremely hard. I thought to myself that if we'll talk via voice and video I'll be able to spot any fakeness, but I was wrong. As for as I analysed, people really believe in their genuinity and when things turn out to be real, they can't cope, chicken out or just they didn't had the plan to engage in lasting and genuine relationship in the first place. So be aware to ask yourself a question if your truly genuine about engaging in a relationship with me, initially ofc (I'm well aware that the final decision to be made afterwards).

Kink wise/What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a person who likes to fully control me, and turn me into a bimbo. Setting up full surveillance over me, controlling where I go, what I do, how I dress etc

I'll offer a loyal and genuine lifelong slave (myself). I'll give up as much blackmail material as it'll be needed to ensure that I'll be in line to do what you say even if it's utterly extreme.

I'm really into power dynamics, forced feminization, bimbofication, humiliation, objectification, degradation, CNC, orgasm control etc.

Limits for a slave is something more narrow, so I'm keeping only to widely spread taboos as the toilet theme and zoo stuff.

Motives wise I need to be honest I'm still discovering what are my motives really. The furthest I got is that I discovered that I'm really leaning to be a trans, as I thought about transitioning myself, but like it's all tightly connected to the fact that I'm deeply into humiliation (as some form of masochism), and the most humiliating thing for a male (I'm only ~70%) is to be forcibly feminized, bimbofied and take all the control over his life.

How to approach:

Haven't thought that I'll need to tell people how to approach, but realistically speaking as far as my experience goes, 90% of people reach out with one "hi". Sadly I can't make a decision whether I should or I shouldn't not engage into a conversation if I don't know who you are, what you're looking for etc. It doesn't need to be a poem, not necessarily. But I do expect a thought out introduction. And please don't forget to include a word "blueberry" so I'll understand that you did read through everything I wrote about.

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