Hey there,

I'm an educated, professional 41 year-old in upstate New York seeking a submissive younger woman with whom I can start a family.

I spent my 20s and 30s chasing a career all over the country. I've since settled back where I started.

I regret my past prioritization of work over family. I genuinely want to be a father and believe I'd make a good one.

It's an issue I hope to rectify sooner rather than later.

I will add, however, that I'm also a long-time Dom with more than 20 years within the lifestyle. Merging those to needs/desires -- a sub/Dom dynamic and the desire for a family -- has proven difficult. I'm confident I'm not the only one who's experienced such struggles.

My kinks include breeding, TPE, free-use, and lactation/hucow.

By day, my style of domination is extremely paternalistic. I very much aspire to the father/daughter dynamic, frankly. That said, I enjoy control over many my sub's day-to-day decisions, and would welcome as much power as she's willing to surrender.

I'm both wholly serious and real.

If you find any of this interesting, don't hesitate to reach out with any questions.

Thanks for reading.