So I’m a bi woman married to a man (obv lol) but we’re non monogamous with different boundaries for each other. After a lot of conversations, we agreed that it was okay for me to have a girl friend with benefits. I’m not looking for a necessarily romantic relationship, though if it develops into that it’s fine as long as we have good boundaries and communication. There doesn’t have to be interaction or a relationship between my spouse and her at all, like specifically not looking for a unicorn but someone for me to bond with and have “fun” with every once in a while. I specifically would want a girl who doesn’t want to touch me/give at all, I love to do the work myself and really only feel comfortable with penetration from my spouse due to some trauma I had as a teenager involving a girlfriend I had. Is that an acceptable situation for wlw? Or is this like a gross and creepy thing to hope to find?