We have been swingers and will likely someday dabble in that again, but we have recently decided to take a huge step back from the LS and couple swapping, but dabble in some hotwife stuff for a little while to get some fun stuff knocked off our bucket list. I’m really excited for some of the stuff but mostly I’m very nervous! I struggle with being the center of attention, because in the LS I found myself really good at making sure everyone feels included in group play and it feels selfish in comparison. I’m also a little nervous about some of the stuff we’ve put on our bucket list as a few of those things require me alone with another person without my husband present, one happening tomorrow, and that makes me a little scared. I feel super vulnerable and anxious. Has anyone here switched from a swinging dynamic to a hotwife dynamic? The anxiety is killing my vibe!