Advice my wife and I roleplayed the idea a to e of times and everytime intense fun amzing sex. One time wasted my buddy was over she brought up the real thing I said no to close to home she kept pursuing it to the point of an argument because I was not comfortable. Awhile after she keeps bringing up and getting turned on by the dirty talk and roleplay but had always told me she wants it as fantasy until that I night. I always said I really want it she objects. Time passes but she makes random comments related to it like going to the beach today. She does her hair and says maybe I’ll find a new boyfriend. I joke back and say yeah no problem maybe I’ll fiend a new girlfriend…. No comment. That being said her Lyle comments. Is it a tease for excitement or hints of desire in reality?