Question for hotwives: Have you every surreptitiously orchestrated your cuck/stag's move into the lifestyle of cuckoldry?

In a recent conversation with a cuck, he explained how they got into the LS. The more and more I heard the story, the more I realized that his girlfriend orchestrated this. She made the entry into it seem like he (or they together) were driving this, but in reality, she carefully planted seeds and acted on desires in the right way to move him into it more and more. Even to the point of caging, denial, and cum-eating.

There is nothing bad or negative at all about this but I am impressed that she took this level of initiative and planning to get what she wanted: a caged cum-eating cuck and a couple of bulls for great sex.

[Thanks for the discussion/Sorry for the crosspost- I wanted to get cucks and hotwives perspectives)