If your husband wanted a women on the side because you have a guy on the side , would you be ok with that, the same way you are asking him to be ok with you having a guy on the side .

Also is it the same, In the form of sex , like I know as a guy I can have sex with just about anyone and when I'm done my mind is almost whipped clean of what I just did and can carry on like it didn't happen figuratively speaking, but can a woman do the same thing?

Or does she daydream of the guy and reminisce about what she and he did like all consuming thoughts , like she can't get back to reality.

Women have more attachment things than men do so I think a man can have a side piece and no worries afterwards, but a woman can linger in that state and have issues.

Just me thinking