My fantasy has always been various versions of Hotwife/cuckold play. My partner and I have slowly talked about it and begun fantasizing about it. I haven’t put pressure on her because I get turned on by knowing my partner is super into it and satisfied. She finally started joking about it more openly without my prompting and I asked her outright if she wanted to try. She said yes.

I will say that I am a very fantasy oriented person. Sometimes painting too much of a picture in my head that is impossible in real life. She is opposite. No fantasies at all. Sex isn’t even about love for her. Bluntly she just likes getting fucked and that is what it is about.

My apprehension is I will overplam this whole thing and ruin it. Her apprehension and not to be said to brag is that I am best lay she ever had and she doesn’t see the point of it isn’t as good. Something I want to ensure. I want the lay to be better. Teach her knew things. Been together 15 years and sometimes things get stuck in a rut. Something we’re both looking forward to changing.

We do know we don’t want to do it in a club atmosphere, prefer private like a hotel.

Looking for suggestions or someone (girl or guy) willing to chat who can provide some guidance. We are new to this and not sure if the porn version is same as reality. Where do we find the guy with the best chance of having a good night, not ghost us? Do we go for an inexperienced person like us or someone who has done it. Should we just hire someone which may seem the easiest.

Let us know how to step into this world.

Private message us or reply here.