Hello all you guys were really helpful with my last post so here goes… I get really anxious posting pictures on here or sharing in chats because there are so many pic collectors, catfish, and just so many PERFECT ladies. I have pics on my profile(need to put newer ones as Ive lost weight) but I don’t get many responses to my posts. Is the issue that I’m not being provocative enough, posting in the wrong subs or just simply people aren’t interested? We are still pretty new and I’ve had some meets but they haven’t really gone the way I was hoping, which kind of made me really reevaluate wether it was something I even want anymore. I understand that talking for awhile before a meet isn’t everyone’s thing but how else can I determine wether the person will be a good potential match and not a flake. We have 4 kids and trying to make sure they are well taken care of so we can play is a hassle and a big expense just for people not to show or show and be all talk. Trying to change the pre agreement of things like my hubby being there. I feel as though the small handful of guys that I have spoken with are extremely aggressive and disrespectful or if I don’t send them videos of me actually having sex with someone else they write me off. I just don’t like being recorded it feels way less intimate and makes me so distracted I can’t even enjoy it. But is that pretty standard for the guy to request so they know we are serious?