A guy reached out to me about 2 months ago and wife and I new to this she reluctantly gave out her phone number to him thur me. They started chatting and he ghosted me as soon as he seen her pictures and try to meet with her and her only. In the beginning he said he was single and that turned into complicated and married and living together and separated big red flag. When wife thought she was ready to meet him alone I said I wanted be be there and it was a no on me being there so I shut it down because that was one of our rules. They continued chatting at a platonic pace because of wife thought chatting was okay. As of 2 weeks ago I completely shut it down due to the fact he avoided the marriage question 2 more times and never contacted me after some feed back also of her saying he need to ask me question she didn'twant to answer. Well he has reached out again to her again with a I know you needed some space and how you all doing. Not sure how I should proceed big red flag is married or separated and i feel he just wants my wife to himself and my wife feels the same way. Please help with some advice.