This is just a rant. My wife has her first play date with a new FWB scheduled for Sunday afternoon. He drives in every other Sunday afternoon for business meeting on Monday morning before making the 3 hour drive back home. We are hoping this one basically turns into a standing date when he is here since I work those days and it wouldn't take time away from us. He texted her today to tell her, among other things, that he had changed his standard king room to a suite with a jacuzzi. She was excited when she told me about it but, for some reason , I'm fully comfortable with her bathing/soaking/showering with him. I don't know why. This is something that has never come up before. It also brought up the question of sleeping/napping together. Her previous dates have all been 1-2 hour meets. Usually grab a drink then go to a room and fuck. When they are done she gets dressed and leaves. Now they will be meeting for champagne brunch at the hotel about 10 and she will be staying till about 4. I'm not sure I'm comfortable with the idea of them cuddled up and napping between rounds. One of our hard no's is no overnights and this seems like a slippery slope.