So we've been sharing for 6 months now and been having a blast. She's really come alive and embraced her sexuality. However recently there has been one guy in particular she talks about a lot and now today she left her phone at home by mistake. I'm totally allowed on her phone and we trust each other but normally I don't bother checking. However casually snooping I found that she's deleted all old messages to him (to hide history?) but crucially stating to her friend and confidante that she is "getting attached". She's smart enough to nip in the bud and I know she loves me and the established life we have together. Any thoughts though on how to help smooth this process by the husband from those who have been through it? Thanks