Back story: we are a married couple (48 and 41) and I recently told my wife I want to share her. She said it was interesting but doesn’t think it’s a smart idea for our tens too ship. Slowly she’s been more open to the fantasy of it but not ready for the real thing.

She’s currently on a cruise with her mom (4 days left). She’s drinking, lounging in her bikini, and making new friends. I’ve been having her send sexy photos the entire trip and telling her how hot she looks. I’ve even given her some challenges. Well she’s met a few guys who are obviously flirting with her. I told her that she should enjoy it and it should make her feel good. She said it does.

My question is this: how far should I encourage her? I don’t want her having sex with another guy for her first time without me involved. But what else should I tell her to do that would get her into the hotwife/vixen role?

Also maybe you’re working on ship and one of the people I heard was hitting on her…