For months I hinted to my GF (23F) that I would love for her to experience another guy and her response was never negative but I wasn't sure how much she meant it. One drunken night, I suggested we bring a guy around instead of going out and she immediately agreed. It ended up being a threesome of sorts but mostly those two having sex. Unfortunately, he was quite drunk and nervous so couldn't perform very well. We both said we loved it, though, and bonded intensely afterwards. That was a few weeks ago and I never spoke of since out of some anxiety.

Today I mustered some courage and finally expressed to her just how much I loved it and asked her to tell me what she really thought of it. She said it was a great and exciting experience and was open for more. We are temporarily long-distance for one month but have agreed to find sexy guys together when she is back in the country for her to try.

Amazing. It feels like a massive weight off my chest and I feel that much closer to her. We're definitely going to have a lot of fun.

But I'm curious if anyone has seen significant changes in their partners sexuality after they start this type of lifestyle? Like, they start to realise they can feel really amazing in bed or get more confidence and desire for guys in general. Our sex has been loving but due to some size incompatibility I can't really have sex with her without hurting her, and she never feels like she can finish, even with her previous BF. Maybe the right guy could 'awaken' something in her? Does that sound possible?