My wife (31) is a HOT-WIFE in the sense that she is HOT and a WIFE. However, she is not a hotwife in the literal sense, as of yet. We have been together for 11 years and our “journey” since has been amazing. We have decent sex but my fantasy for her is to have AMAZING sex. I want her to have everything she deserves and she deserves everything. My pleasure nowadays comes from her pleasure. To make a long story short we are open. Maybe not as open as some others but definitely not as closed a some could be. A few years back we took a sex quiz that opened up our interests in involving other people. We both expressed interest in watching eachother fuck other people and that lead to us telling eachother stories of our past sexual partners and experiences. She saw how much it turned me on and that lead to me getting her realistic dildos that replicated her hung exes etc. nowadays we sarcastically joke about her “fucking hot guys” or celebs she thinks are hot, when we fuck we pillow talk about it, We’ve been charred with single guys and couples online but it seems to always be fantasy and never reality. Anytime it’s crunch time and “serious talk” it’s always nerves and shyness kicking in or the worry of being taboo and wanting to stay discreet. I know she’s open to it/ fantasizes about it. But idk how to transition it into reality. I don’t wanna pressure her or push to much but is there a way to suggest or see if she’s really down to make it real? I’m open to suggestion/chat about the potential of my wife really becoming a hotwife and would love to hear any perspective from anyone. Thanks for reading.