When my girlfriend and I first got together, she’d tell me loads of really hot stories randomly but at the start of our relationship they made me insecure. Over time now we’re so close and I feel so much more secure in my relationship, I wish I knew more! Such a shame I shut it all down.

I tried to make some progress one night recently when we discussed my cock size being the biggest she’s had (she’s always said this). I was trying to get her to speak about previous sizes and said she must have had another guy who was significant in some way (girth or length) but she said she couldn’t remember after pausing and saying ‘hmm maybe when I was younger.. I don’t know’.

It was the closest I’d come to discussing past stuff again, I think she was maybe worried it would upset me or id be weird about something, even though I was saying I wanted to know.

Any ideas for other ways I can slowly show her that I find the idea hot now and want to hear more without going to full on? I don’t want to hear so much it makes me jealous, as it’s a tight rope walk for me in terms of balancing the kink.