My friend... and more than one person I've object in the LS, has been in this situation...

my close friend was married 20 years. She is very hot and in her really 50's... she was a hotwife and fucked many other guys and women for many years. Which was great for both her and hubby.

But then she got a boyfriend which is NOT just a steady fuck ...a boyfriend is someone who she opens up their life to, emotions, goes on fats with and creates a true intimate relationship with.. and it is more giving her time and attention and life to... he was MUCH younger then her... I warned her right away but she thought she had it under control. And it went on... and then others warned both her and her hubby... well, it lasted two years... but she got to treating him like a second husband in just about all things... , and when hubby got tired of that and put his foot down... he thought she'd give him up. Nope

Things got really ugly and he embedded up catching her on hidden body temlimg this for while she was fucking him in thecl guest room that her hubby finished for this guy... that she loved him... deep intense looking your eyes while fucking I LOVE YOU... and he found out she bought this guy s rubber wedding ring behind his back.

And this happens A LOT. There's a very clear difference between stready fucks that are your friends now because they've fucked your wife so much ( we have these...i have two guys I've been fucking off and onfor going on 8 years) and a boyfriend. I had one guy that got like this with me and I knew better... and it almost fucked up my very long marriage... and DID fuck up us hotwifig got a while ...we had to stop and fix our marriage.

I was 6 months older than his mom... he was 6 months younger than my oldest daughter. So don't be fooled by the age. Red flags are fed flags.

My friend and her hubby filed for divorce and she moved out with the young 30 something... but then when she saw how she was going to lose everything (her kids, heylr house... he was going to take it all and punish her) she came back.

They are bstill together and now they are very van into the hot wife life and she's got so many men is just insane. But they learned... no boyfriends.. and it took counseling and years of work to get back to a page of trust that they had for over 20 years before this

If you want a polyamorous relationship, then look into it and do your homework and go in carefully. But if you just want her to be your wife... your wife but fuck other men (which is not polyamorous but just about sex) then you better make sure you two are on the same page

This stuff is incredible but it's also a time bomb if you don't stay on the same page and aren't brutally honest.

Why are you on here? Si you have a wife? And is she a hotwife? It always sounds like you are just saying the same thing... " we do all this stuff for them, fuck em... they need to do what we want"

Not sure what your story is but it isn't relevant to this sub

And this is polyamory, not hotwifing. To each his own but the two in the couple need to know what ALL is involved

Is this a healthy reason to keep stating?! No!!

A healthy marriage would elicit the response... "We love each other deeply, know each other fully, and this is just about sex...neither would ever leave...."

not ... I'm not worried as she won't leave cuz I make more money and can give her stuff he can't"

So many red flags

This is terrible and not hotwifing

Yes it is