So, I know y'all would say don't bank your happiness on losing virginity. But I feel so undesirable and like it's absolutely hopeless. How hard is it to find a woman that just wants to use me for her personal pleasure and take my virginity? It feels hopeless. Being that I'm in college, don't have a vehicle, and I live in a dorm, that doesn't help my case. But I'm also very well know on the campus and don't want rumors going around about it me. (which is why I don't hook up with a woman here at the college and also why i haven't tried tinder). It's such a sticky rough situation and it feels hopeless. I don't know where to go or what to do from here and I just want a woman to use me at this point. I'm so over it.

I don't want to with someone I know because I just don't want to remember them like that. I want it with a random woman to just want to hook up.

Im on both reddit (obviously) and fetlife, but like I feel like nobody wants men and there's so many bot women out there, it just feels hopeless.

Im a pretty easygoing guy, comfort and respect are huge for me and I feel like im decently attractive too. I don't know what I'm doing wrong and I can't find the right situation.