Hi I shared my fantasy with my wife a while back now but recently it’s all taken a real turn. I posted some pics after speaking with her and showed her the messages. Fast forward a little and things are wild. my wife has been speaking with one of the guys for the last few days now and exchanging a few pics etc, honestly we have lost count of how many times we have had sex. The effect it’s all had on her is amazing, she is so happy, confident, excited and horny, it’s like it’s awakened a whole side of her that neither of us realised had gone dormant.

Personally, I’ve been surprised by the feelings I’ve experienced. It’s hard to pin point what the feelings are. Overwhelmingly I want this. But I didn’t expect to feel jealousy or insecurity for example, in hindsight that’s pretty naive I guess. But seeing her texting fills me with such a mixture of emotions ranging from pure lust to wanting to compete for her attention. “Normal” right? Feels almost like playing with the emotions rather than them being real kinda thing.

In terms of how things are progressing, very well. Faster than either of us anticipated but we are communicating none stop and it doesn’t feel “too” fast for either of us. She has reassured my feelings at every step and I feel confident I’ve done the same. They are talking about meeting, I doubt that would be anytime in the next month though but it’s taken a more serious / “this is going to happen” kind of turn.

It’s all so hot, it’s a struggle for us to balance our real lives at the minute 😂.

If anyone wanted to offer any thoughts or advice for any of the points i mentioned or general advice for me or my wife It would be most appreciated as this is all new for us and difficult for us to know what’s normal or how to proceed.

Thanks and sorry for the long post.