My ex wife and I still live together after recently getting divorced. This only happened a few weeks ago, so the divorced is filed but obviously not complete yet. We're cool with eachother and she wants to remain friends. We live in a small 2 bedroom apartment and stay in separate rooms.

I'm still really into her still and had plans of trying to fix the marriage but it seems like she's moving a long faster than I am. Her style totally changed when she filed the papers. She now goes out to stores and stuff wearing VERY revealing cloths. She's a latina girl with huge boobs and ass and she's been wearing shirts that show a TON of cleavage and she either wears super tight sweat pants that make her ass look huge or tight short shorts. I honestly start getting hard just during the times when I see her around the house.

Here's where my question comes in, she recently told me she's been talking to this guy online and said she's going to have him over this weekend to have a movie night in the living room. She mention she was gonna make a few drinks too and she asked me if I wanted to come watch the movie too.

I was super surprised by that because 1- I'm still torn up about the divorce and like her a lot still, 2- It's weird that she wants me to meet some random dude she's talking to, and 3- Being invited to go watch a movie with them seems super weird and awkward.

I can kinda see if from her point of view though, if she thinks were just good friends now that I might be cool with it and shes just being nice inviting me, but for me it's kinda weird.

ALSO, one thing I know about my ex wife is her sex drive has always been through the roof, and whenever she gets a few drinks in her system she gets instantly horny.

There's a good chance her and this guy are gonna be getting close on our couch while i'm there and maybe even kissing.

The thing is, I'm actually turned on about thinking of her with other men. Hence why i'm posting here. This is something iv'e recently discovered.

While back she told me she had made some dating profiles and was scrolling through showing me all the guys reaching out to her. She even showed me dick pics guy were sending her. One of the guys she was actively communicating with back n forth sent her one (she asked) and he had a HUGE dick. Way bigger than me. At that point I remember getting really turned on my the thought of her having that.

Like what if it's that guy with the big dick that's coming over.

So my question is, what's the best way to navigate this situation? What if I'm sitting there watching the movie and they start making out or I can tell shes rubbing his cock or something under the blanket, how do I react?

She doesn't know that I'd be super turned on by it. Like do I tell them something? do I just sit there awkwardly and ignore it? Do I just acknowledge it and say "seems like you guys like eachother" or what?

How would you handle this?

Also, if there's gonna be drinks does that mean the guy is staying the night? One thing I know about my ex is shes REALLY vocal and loud in bed so if they did stuff I would definitely hear it just being in the other room.