My wife and I are still fairly new to the LS, so I’m sorry for the newb and possibly odd question.

Have you ever hoped and sometimes pushed, for your vixen to be with a certain guy? And then after she does hook up with him, and continues to do so, have you ever lost interest in her being with that guy?

I pushed for my wife to be with this really close guy friend of ours for months. Was her first guy she’d beed with, solo, for a couple years. They have continued to hook up, which is just fine with me, but I don’t have the excitement that I used to, only when it comes to this certain guy. Others she had been with, recently, still excited me.

Can anyone help me figure out my feelings for this? I’m sorry, I’m just looking for a little help. Thanks!