I was wondering how many people in this lifestyle enjoy their wife having sex with their friends? I see a lot of posts about that here on Reddit, but I'm not sure what's reality versus fantasy. My wife isn't currently keen on the idea of having sex with longtime friends, but I enjoy the idea. In particular, their's one friend I've known for 30 years now who's currently going through a divorce and I'd love for him to fuck my wife. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. For me, the fun of this lifestyle is that we both enjoy doing kinky stuff together, so I would take no pleasure in her doing something soley for my enjoyment knowing she's not really into it. But I wanted to know if this is really something that happens often in the lifestyle? If so, was there any initial reluctancy the first time a friend was involved or did you start out by involving friends?