We are both Indians in the UK, both 26. We've been talking about hotwifing for a few months now but she has always been on the fence. After having her tubes tied recently she has now went from "maybe" to "how do we make this happen", but she/we want some rather specific things.

She wants it to be a tall and well built Scandinavian/Nordic type white male. Apologies if this is offensive but it's good to be upfront. Also she is damn fit and attractive so, hell, she deserves it tbf.

She wants to be approached and pursued by this type of guy in a "sensual" setting like a hotel bar. In the UK men tend to be relatively reserved, so we're thinking of making this happen on a holiday abroad, and since our holidays are coming up we have the opportunity. Any suggestions for countries/cities?

I have asked her if she would be open to having the guy ejaculate inside her, since she can't get pregnant anymore. She is down with this as long as the guy's had an STD check, her type, and the sex is awesome.

She is NOT interested in online sites and dating apps, never used them and never will. She wants the attraction and seduction to happen naturally from start to finish. But just for now she is getting her toes wet by flirting and talking about this on Instagram, which mostly consists of replying to messages from models / fitness influencers she finds attractive, and escalating the flirtations. She lets me read these, thankfully, and well I'll just say I'm beyond excited by some of the conversations she's had.

Any advice for how/when/where to make this happen according to these preferences?

Thanks in advance. My hands are shaking as I type this, not out of anxiety but genuine excitement.