Personally we are not a fan of someone that asks to meet right away. We like to chat first and make sure there is a good vibe and no red flags in conversation.

Some red flags are: -very “porn-y” talk. Someone that wants to narrate a story or is focused on their “perfect cock” I believe they would be more focused on their pleasure than mine. -someone they tries to push boundaries before even meeting. We meet together and if they ask to meet behind my husbands back or something like that. Big red flag. -someone that won’t verify. Either with pictures or video. -generally new accounts on Reddit aren’t good and are deleted within a week. -we prefer a site like SLS (swinglifestyle.com) because certs can provide some confidence in who the person is.

We were all new once but we find that we get ghosted by new couple a lot. Mainly the husband doing the talking and when we push to speak to the wife, poof

My wife isn’t into the online part of the lifestyle but she would verify if she needs.

Always verify before wasting time. No need to chat for days with someone we don’t know what they look like