My wife has brought up multiple times over the past 2 years or so that she's bored and wants to fuck other people. I told her i'm into the idea and she gets really excited but it always seems to die down before we actually set something up. We've talked about rules, how to find a guy, etc.

The thing is she doesn't really know where to find a guy and she doesn't want to get on dating apps. I know FOR SURE she wants to do this but she just seems hesitant maybe because she doesn't know if i'll like it or what. It kinda seems like shes not going to make the first move and just straight up say "I want to do this lets find a guy now"

I was wondering if I should try to get up a situation to facilitate it. We're going to be taking a vacation to a casino here soon and I was thinking about finding a local bull before hand and set it up so he's there and maybe starts hitting on my wife either in front of me or when I go to the bathroom or something and see where it leads.

I actually read a post before where something similar happened. Couple was at a resort, wife had no intention of doing anything that day, the couple has talked about swinging in the past but nothing serious, well there was a group of guys there that approached the couple and made friends, the guys invited them back to their hotel room to continue having a few drinks and watch a movie, they started getting flirty with the wife, she liked it, the husband eventually went out of the room to get another drink and when he came back his wife was naked with them lol.

A situation like that would be ideal, of course if everyone is comfortable and into it. I just feel like she needs a little nudge.